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SisterServant   in reply to AJTKY
You will be okay. You will be better than okay. It sounds like your anxiety is long-standing and probably deep-rooted, but you have a partner and that is God.

God is always there for you so you can really give up the fear that things won't work out. As long as you keep talking to God, you will be able to have a better life.

It is wonderful to praise God. It is also important to thank God for small and big things. Make a list of the things that you feel thankful for and then thank God everyday for all of these.

You are right to ask God to rid you of the negative thoughts. He will help you with anything that you need if you keep putting your trust in Him. Keeping thanking him and praising Him and ask specifically for what you need. He is listening and ready to assist you.

I used to be very anxious also, but I learned to turn all of my worries over to God. Now I just thank him and praise him and ask Him for what I need (and sometimes want.) He takes care of me like a good Father. He will do the same for you.

Blessings be upon you.
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AJTKY   in reply to SisterServant
Yes Ma'am,
I felt myself getting overly anxious last night. I went to church. I follow these steps every day. Every morning I wake up to a day that was never promised to me and I praise about it. I asked God to take the negative thoughts away and that no matter what does happen, it was in His plan all along. I pray I will be ok.
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SisterServant   in reply to AJTKY
Do not worry in advance. Do not what if?_____ Your officer rescheduled the appointment immediately because you called.

Begin to thank God what is going right in the present moment and do not anticipate the worse. You do not need to let your anxiety get out of control.

Ask God to help you with this, but thank God first everyday for that which is good in your life.

You will see a big improvement overall if you follow my suggestion.

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Schmidty   in reply to AJTKY
If you have talked to her and she has rescheduled, then I doubt you have anything to worry about. When You spoke to her , you talked about why you didn't make it didn't you. Well, she would have given some indication if things were bad and she wouldn't have rescheduled your appointment.Good Luck and God Bless
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AJTKY   in reply to Schmidty
I appreciate your kindness. Now I am dealing with more issues that I am scared to death about. I accidentally missed my scheduled appointment with my officer yesterday. I spoke to her only hours after I was supposed to report. She rescheduled my appointment, but now I am scared I may be in trouble. I can not afford to be in trouble.
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Schmidty   in reply to AJTKY
That is quit noble of you but a person in need is in need. If you look through some of my conversations you'll find one on job opening through out the states that may help you. I care not of your troubles, I have my own, but a person asking for help, is asking for help and that's what I try to give.Good Luck and God Bless
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AJTKY   in reply to Schmidty
Thank you, unfortunately I got myself into this situation. I will have to get myself out. No one wants to help a "criminal" although no one gives a chance to hear the entire story. I do not want charity. That is for people who have special needs that can not be obtained on their own. What I am looking for is a way to make extra money, side job, home business, etc to try to pay faster and be done. Thank you for your time.
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